My life #001
Out of nothing comes this post, apparently on a whole new topic that I haven’t talked about before (and didn’t plan on posting about)… my life.
In very short time (less than 72 hours now), I will once again hold that precious little girl I love so much in my arms once again.
Waiting for this has made me realize that all this babbling about LDR’s is really true. I’m SOO excited, and looking forward to be posting pictures and thoughts about my stay at her college.
Love > Distance
Never ending spirals: Balancing the two →
Your friends and your relationship.
You can’t spend all your time together, but you also can’t just decide to “hang out” when one person seems to need you. I honestly believe that people in a healthy relationship require time apart, so they can be comfortable with themselves, they should hang…
Relationship #023
Nothing…
The forbidden word. When a girl says the forbidden word, guys know that they’re in BIIG trouble. Nothing basically means: ‘anything’. The guy immidiatly starts thinking about what he could have done wrong all while the girl is freaking out that he doesn’t know he hasn’t commented on her new nail polish color which matches the colors of the walls in her room.
Girls: If you say nothing, expect nothing. Nothing says, nothing gets. Guys aren’t that sophisticated, we’re sorry. If you got something on your mind, tell us right away, we can handle that more easily.
Relationship #022
Girls, and guys, remember that when in a deep relationship, you gain a lot of power. You can control your lover’s almost every action if you do your manipulation right, well…
DON’T!
- Not fair to him/her
- Do you really love this person?
Be mindful of what you tell your partner, your words probably have a lot more consequences than you realize.
Sex #006
Being able to have sex, naked and in bright light, is important to a relationship, for both partners. I’m not saying you should do it with lights on every time, the darkness brought by curtains or simply the night, can be very enticing as well, and lead to fun sex games.
By having sex with the lights, and seeing eachother’s bodies, acknowledging and accepting the looks of your partner is very important. It creates a vital bond between the two of you providing confidence and self-esteem for both, which part of the core of a good and healthy relationship. Reassurance is the key. Remember to tell your partner you love his/her body, especially their genitals.
A man’s ‘manhood’ is very important to him, making fun of it ISN’T fun, just so you know. Would you, girls, like to be joked about being called fat?
Relationship #021
Being a nice boyfriend isn’t always easy when the girl keeps putting herself down, making negative comments about her looks, body, weight and everything.
Women: Don’t assume that your partner is lying to you, you’ll ruin the relationship for him and you. If you get mad when he tells you something nice, if you put yourself down every time you get a nice comment, if you disrespect him every time he tells you you’re all he could ever ask for, you’re making it worse for yourself.
Consider his thoughts: “Okay, every time I tell her something nice, the reply is: “No, you’re lying, I’m not that!” I might as well not tell her at all. Does she even care about me…” and so forth.
